Tuesday, July 10, 2007

Good Rewards

I just heard this today, and I thought it was a Good reminder --

Instead of over-praising our kids ( and ourselves!) for achievements, wins, goals, best grades, making the grade, participating, showing-up (some of these are really just lame - others are too pushy and pressured exp[ectations...)

WE SHOULD REWARD:
  • generosity
  • kindness
  • perseverance
  • EFFORT

and I would add:
  • integrity
  • completion (finishing, even if it's less than great)
  • accomplishiment, (not necessarily reaching your ideals or highest possible)

AND for the Good Things, we should continue to

Find - Reward - Keep - and Share -

Whatever is:

true

noble

right

pure

lovely

admirable

excellent

worthy

. . .in short, The Good Stuff!

[ Phil. 4:8-9 ]
PS. I know, this blog has been in the deep-six for too long, I've been working on other threads, but with some changes here, we'll be back, up and running again. Stay with us, join up, hang on for the ride. . . . . ! :-)

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